I want to discuss very important delusion nowadays - delusion, that's it's more enjoyable too live in big family. And this is completely wrong
I don't really understand couples, that decide to have more than 2 kids, especially when they don't have big income from their jobs. Firstly, when you have lots of kids, you have to spend lots of money, first couple of years on children food that is kind of expensive, on baby clothes and different things like children seat in car, toys and other stuff like this. Then, when kids will go to elementary school you should buy for them books and other consumables like pens, pencils etc. Then comes middle, high and then Institute, in which it's hard to enter in on budget studying. So you will have to pay for your kids additional studying so he will have a chance to get "normal" job. So for about 20 years you have to spend so much money on your kids that eventually will leave you with nothing. Yes, there’s some situations where everything goes other way, but there’s so little chance of it, that I decided not to mention it.
But lets stop with pros and go to cons.
I don’t see them. You just have to get along with loud noises, quarrels, misunderstandings, spending very and such stuff for about 20 years. I just can’t see anything good in big family, there is nothing enjoyable in it.
Yes, there are people that think, that say “children are flowers of life” and they just love kids, but I’m not one of them.
So in conlusion, I want too say that if you want a big family, think again and change your opinion